tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post353127912293596922..comments2023-10-06T01:28:33.991-07:00Comments on a whole new path: ST, IVF, the HFEA and other shitty acronyms...littleoldmehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12659284590454139243noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-21270464477799377172009-10-02T13:48:18.588-07:002009-10-02T13:48:18.588-07:00Go to you appt hun, PCT guidance is just that it i...Go to you appt hun, PCT guidance is just that it is bypassable (new word) and privately funded you can usually get whatever if you're paying - if not at that hosp your consultant will know where, good luck and keep smiling xxstephnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-45724179940364581372009-10-01T12:37:48.388-07:002009-10-01T12:37:48.388-07:00Hi Emmy,
How awful - well just keep everything cro...Hi Emmy,<br />How awful - well just keep everything crossed that there is a reason you've been referred.<br />As an aside if you contact the county court where you were divorced they should be able to provide a further Decree Absolute for a nominal fee (usually about £5).<br />xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-40953456751241723992009-09-29T13:33:18.445-07:002009-09-29T13:33:18.445-07:00I don't know if anybody else has suggested thi...I don't know if anybody else has suggested this to you but if IVF is a no no here, have you thought about researching having it done abroad, it would be alot more hassle but I believe it is cheaper in some countries and would be so worth it to give yourself a chance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-77065598372490975972009-09-28T17:13:27.387-07:002009-09-28T17:13:27.387-07:00@Anonymous Wow I love how you made such a harsh co...@Anonymous Wow I love how you made such a harsh comment but didnt have the balls to use a name!Lola (alaina is a fine mess...)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02224065386365296688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-7128211255384744292009-09-28T07:30:58.963-07:002009-09-28T07:30:58.963-07:00OK - you're clearly upset so I'm going to ...OK - you're clearly upset so I'm going to try and be as delicate as I can be here.<br /><br />Firstly, this isn't your ex-husband's fault. Comments like "ST's back...and he's ruined our chances of IVF" and "I hope he rots in hell" do you no credit. Upsetting though it clearly is for you, you need to accept that you both entered into your abortive marriage freely; he didn't deliberatly set out to ruin your life or your chances of having a baby, whatever his faults.<br /><br />Secondly, do you not think it might be a good thing that they want people to be in a stable relationship before helping them have children? Frankly,in some of your postings on this blog and your previous one - not least your latest posting - you don't come across as a particularly calm or stable individual. I'd be worried about you adopting a puppy at the moment, let alone having a child. <br /><br />This isn't intended to be harsh, but I'm hoping you will come to see this as a positive step in your life and take some time to improve your emotional stability, before you take any drastic steps like starting a family with a guy you've been with for six months. I realise you have strong feelings for him, but it's not so long since you had equally strong feelings for your husband, and look how that ended up. I'm sure even you will admit that it's a good thing that there were no babies around while you were sleeping in a heap by the radiator, physically attacking your ex husband, and being taken to hospital on the verge of a total mental collapse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-74265481979042626282009-09-28T05:49:32.099-07:002009-09-28T05:49:32.099-07:00Hey Honey, I'm so sorry to hear this bad news...Hey Honey, I'm so sorry to hear this bad news. I hope you get the answers you want at your appointment. I'll keep everything crossed for you.<br /><br />Lots of love and hugs<br /><br />Lisa XAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06514560144865327676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2362136010461987135.post-41237516699936606602009-09-26T22:30:57.149-07:002009-09-26T22:30:57.149-07:00oh, Emmy. I am so sorry you're going through ...oh, Emmy. I am so sorry you're going through all this stuff. xxxJoanne xnoreply@blogger.com