You write about yourself on a blog. It is like a diary. It is bound to be mostly about yourself thus you may appear self obsessed!
I did not "invite" people to come on here. I ended the last blog as I didn't enjoy or gain anything positive from nasty comments. This one was only sent to people who identified themselves via email to me. This is why I don't understand why you are posting as negatively as anonymous when you must have initially contacted me directly.
I sent the link in good faith to people who I thought were genuine and supportive. I am not asking the world to agree with every decision I make, neither am I inviting some sort of virtual fan club. If I did that then I would make the whole thing public. As it stands, whoever you are, you have totally missed the point of why I set up this second blog.
I have made many new friends via my blog, many of whom I have met up with for real. People who were ready to identify themselves so they could not hide behind the anonymity were more than welcome to join me on the second one. Many positive "anonymous" comments are also accompanied by an email to my email address saying who it was that posted and saying they had trouble logging in. It is not that I only invite positive comment.
I do not advertise this blog or encourage others to join in any way. If you wish to remain anonymous and continue to judge me as if you have some god given right to know me better than my family, friends, colleagues, fertility doctors and the fertility counselling team then I do believe it may be you that needs a reality check.
I am not a heroine in any way shape or form. I reacted badly to a horrible situation. I am lucky that the situation has resolved itself. I am more than aware that terrible things happen to people all of the time. I do not broadcast myself via this blog, simply invited a group of people who would be supportive and helpful whilst I deal with the road of infertility.
Life never seems to work out the way anyone plans it. I am not a victim, nor a heroine. I'm trying to live my life in the best way I can.
If you don't wish to be supportive then this is not the right place for you. There are more than enough mudslingers in the world.
Look my mum in the eye, tell her she's not ready to support a grandchild or her own daughter in becoming a mother. Tell my dad that you think his daughter's unstable. Tell Tom you think I'm not over ST. No, thought you wouldn't in "real life" so please don't do it on here.